I was recently driving to meet a friend for lunch when a familiar sensation washed over me. As I pulled into the parking lot, I had that awkward realization of "Wait… how did I get here?"

Sure, I was technically present enough to navigate traffic and follow the route. But my mind? It was racing three steps ahead, rehearsing conversation topics, scrolling through my mental to-do list, and plotting errands like a strategic game. My body was in one place, while my thoughts were scattered across a dozen others.

Sound familiar? 

It's remarkable how often we operate on autopilot, our minds buzzing with what's next while missing what's now. We've become so skilled at DOING that we've forgotten how to just BE.

But here's the gentle lesson: Every moment offers an invitation to reconnect with ourselves.

When you notice yourself caught in the overthinking trap, try this simple reset:

• Take three deep breaths (feeling it in your belly).
• With each inhale and exhale, let your shoulder muscles soften
• Become aware of 3 things you hear right now
• Tap your fingers on the steering wheel and feel the sensations in your hands

The to-do lists will wait. The planning can pause. For now, can you gift yourself even one minute to simply exist in this moment?

Your invitation for today: Next time you find yourself mentally racing ahead, pause. Take one deep breath. Tune in to your body for tension and release it. Listen to the world around you. You might be surprised by the refreshing reset awaiting in that small moment of presence.

How can you connect with yourself today?

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